Being in love with a Gemini man can be both wonderful and challenging. If you’re a woman who has fallen for one of these men you already know that. Gemini men have so many fantastic, endearing and charming qualities. They are intelligent and loyal. These men also are spontaneous and very fun, so be prepared for a lifetime of adventures if you’re fortunate enough to get the Gemini man in your life to want to commit to you. Many women find that these men are slow to take any romantic relationship to the next level. There’s a reason for that and once you understand what it is, you can then work on helping him get over any emotional barriers he may have so he can give himself to you and your future together.
Embrace the Relationship as It Is
Gemini men generally don’t follow their heart into a commitment. They, instead, lead with their head. They think their relationship through before they decide if it’s right for them. They aren’t easily swayed by romantic gestures or heartfelt love letters. They want to know that the partner they choose to spend their life with will be a good fit for them in the long term.
To this end, it’s important that you don’t push your man into a commitment before he’s ready. If you try that tactic he’s likely going to either pull back from the connection, or break it off entirely. He doesn’t want to feel as though he’s being pressured into something that he’s not certain is right for him.
He wants to take his time evaluating how well you two fit together as a couple. That’s why it’s essential that you embrace the relationship in the here and now. Don’t chase after him and don’t constantly talk about where you hope things are headed in the future. Be your honest and genuine self today and that will impress him as he’s considering his future and your possible future together as a married couple.
This is also important in terms of sharing what you’re feeling with him. You may want to scream from the rooftops that you love him and can’t wait to be his wife. If he’s not emotionally ready to hear this, don’t be shocked if he retreats to the point that he’s suddenly too busy to spend time with you. Men born under this sign are easily spooked, so you must allow him to set the tone and the pace of the relationship. He wants to be with someone who is relaxed and not focused on an engagement ring or extravagant wedding.
Keep Him Captivated By Being Interesting
A man born under the astrological sign of the Gemini will typically be highly intelligent. These men crave information and they are often on a lifelong journey to learn as much as they can about whatever they can. If you want to appeal to a man like this it’s important that you adopt his unending need for gaining more and more knowledge.
That’s not to suggest that you should change who you are but there are many benefits for any woman who continues to acquire new information on a daily basis. If you stay abreast of what’s happening in the news, if you read the latest and greatest best sellers and if you pursue an interest in things you find fascinating, you’re going to become a much more attractive person in every aspect of your life.
Your Gemini guy wants to be able to have a conversation with you that includes some depth. He wants to know that you can keep up with him on a debate about virtually anything. If you can do this, it will not only impress him, it will create a bond that will be difficult to break. Gemini men want and need to find a woman who views the world, and all it has to offer, with a sense of wonder.
Don’t Be Afraid to Flirt With Him
Regardless of how long you’ve been with your Gemini, you can be certain that he loves it when you flirt with him. A man like this wants and needs to know that the woman he’s involved with can’t get enough of him. He wants to get flirty text messages occasionally throughout the day and he loves when she tells him there isn’t another man in the world that she finds as attractive as him.
Some relationships cool down over time and in the case of a connection with a Gemini, that can spell early disaster. If he feels that you aren’t putting in the effort to make him feel loved and adored anymore, he may cast his attention elsewhere.
In addition to ensuring you show him how you feel through small gestures on a daily basis, there’s also tremendous value in planning something spontaneous for the two of you to do together. Gemini men aren’t that intrigued by huge, romantic spectacles. They are more taken when a woman puts in an effort to plan an evening or a day date that involves something they love to do.
If your guy is into sailing, plan a weekend sailing trip for the two of you. Or maybe he’s always wanted to take up the sport of scuba diving. Find a local place where you can both take lessons and then plan for a trip a few months from now. Anything you can do that shows that you understand and embrace him and his interests, is going to melt his heart.
Just be certain to show him, through actions and works, on a continual basis how fortunate you feel to be loved by him. If you do this, instead of pushing him repeatedly for a commitment, you are going to make him want to commit to you because he’ll see you as his ideal life partner. Subtlety is the key when you are trying to get a Gemini man to see you as the women of his dreams.
Source by Gillian Reynolds